9 Sexy Things Your Man Is Begging You to Try in the Bedroom

If you're a woman, you're probably well aware of what kind of sex sets you over the edge, [...]

By Libby Birk

If you're a woman, you're probably well aware of what kind of sex sets you over the edge, especially if you're pretty familiar with your body. You know those sweet spots you want your guy to hit, and you know exactly how to get him there.

And while women may see sex for guys as a pretty straight-forward transaction, the truth is that there are some secrets guys might not have come clean about — especially when it comes to what they're fond of in bed.

Is there something you're completely convinced is driving your guy wild while most men would actually advise shying away from? Or maybe you're totally overthinking nookie while your guy just wants you to let loose. From general input to nitty gritty advice, these sex tips from men will certainly have you looking at sex differently.

Communicate more

For once, men are asking for more communication. When it comes to the bedroom, guys don't like guessing at what's working and what's not working for their partner.

"Whether before, during, after, communicate. People having lousy sex, or even not just better sex, because they're too embarrassed or shy or scared of expressing themselves? Makes no sense...And I don't mind if you direct me - my ego is happiest when she is having the best possible time with me." — Reddit user EmbarrassedAnonAcc

"Don't be afraid to be forward and ask for what you want: fantasies, acts, positions." — Greg, 36

"The thrill for men comes mostly from pleasing you. If we're doing something wrong, tell us...If you don't say something, then we'll keep doing what we're doing because we'll take your fake moans as 'keep going.' Be upfront, and direct us." — Reddit user ToSay_TheLeast

Throw caution to the wind

As it turns out, guys are just trying to have a good time when it comes to sex — and that means they want their partners to have fun, too. Who ever said sex had to be so serious? These guys share their advice of how to make sex fun.

"If something happens that could be gross or mortifying, just laugh, 99% of the time thats all he wants to do anyway." — Reddit user Deathflid

"Be as confident as you can. Being enthralled in your sexiness takes my mind off of my insecurities so I can enjoy it too. Know when to let go and let me be in charge, but take control when you want. The balance of dominance is undeniably sexy." — Harrison, 22

"Initiate once in while. Makes us feel like we're wanted." — Reddit user Top_Wop

Try these sexy techniques

In addition to the general let-your-hair-down, tell-us-what-to-do advice, some dudes have some nitty-gritty hanky panky tips for you to add to your arsenal.

"Don't be afraid to get on top. It gets too repetitive if I'm always the one putting it down." — Wayne, 18

"If you're doing missionary and your hands are free, shoulder massages and head scratches." — Reddit user Im_not_a_doctor__but

"Do kegels while he's inside you. It feels amazing." — Gene, 28

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