9 Sexy Things Your Man Is Begging You to Try in the Bedroom
If you're a woman, you're probably well aware of what kind of sex sets you over the edge, [...]
Communicate more
For once, men are asking for more communication. When it comes to the bedroom, guys don't like guessing at what's working and what's not working for their partner.
"Whether before, during, after, communicate. People having lousy sex, or even not just better sex, because they're too embarrassed or shy or scared of expressing themselves? Makes no sense...And I don't mind if you direct me - my ego is happiest when she is having the best possible time with me." — Reddit user EmbarrassedAnonAcc
"Don't be afraid to be forward and ask for what you want: fantasies, acts, positions." — Greg, 36
"The thrill for men comes mostly from pleasing you. If we're doing something wrong, tell us...If you don't say something, then we'll keep doing what we're doing because we'll take your fake moans as 'keep going.' Be upfront, and direct us." — Reddit user ToSay_TheLeast
Throw caution to the wind
As it turns out, guys are just trying to have a good time when it comes to sex — and that means they want their partners to have fun, too. Who ever said sex had to be so serious? These guys share their advice of how to make sex fun.
"If something happens that could be gross or mortifying, just laugh, 99% of the time thats all he wants to do anyway." — Reddit user Deathflid
"Be as confident as you can. Being enthralled in your sexiness takes my mind off of my insecurities so I can enjoy it too. Know when to let go and let me be in charge, but take control when you want. The balance of dominance is undeniably sexy." — Harrison, 22
"Initiate once in while. Makes us feel like we're wanted." — Reddit user Top_Wop
Try these sexy techniques
In addition to the general let-your-hair-down, tell-us-what-to-do advice, some dudes have some nitty-gritty hanky panky tips for you to add to your arsenal.
"Don't be afraid to get on top. It gets too repetitive if I'm always the one putting it down." — Wayne, 18
"If you're doing missionary and your hands are free, shoulder massages and head scratches." — Reddit user Im_not_a_doctor__but
"Do kegels while he's inside you. It feels amazing." — Gene, 28