When it comes to sex, keeping your partner on their toes (literally and figuratively) can be the key to a healthy, fresh sex life. While there's nothing wrong with the tried and true missionary position time and time again (especially when you throw in kinks like these), every once in a while it might be good to surprise your partner by switching it up.
It's also important to know that despite what society has told us, men actually do pay attention to quality over quantity of sex; and while there are plenty of positions that guarantee an orgasm on the ladies' side (and you just know men aren't picky about how they climax), sometimes it's good to choose a fun sex position for the guy in the relationship.
If you're finding yourself panicky or anxious at the thought of having to bring dominatrix-style moves or acrobatics into the bedroom, fear not. You can still keep it simple while surprising your guy in bed; just take a look at these sex moves men love.
Ankles Over Shoulders
During good old missionary, surprise him by tossing your ankles onto his shoulders. Not only will it give him a clear and sexy view, but he'll feel *that* much bigger with the new angle allowing him to go deeper. Depending on your height differences, you may need to prop a pillow under your booty for some extra height (another trick you'll be glad you learned). If either of you are still craving more, try it with your booty hanging a little off the bed.
Once you've mastered the ankles-over-shoulders move, take a page out of the Kama Sutra and try the Broken Flute: Put one foot on one of his shoulders, then take it off and put your other foot on his other shoulder, like some sort of mid-coital Chorus Line dancer.prevnext
You knew doggy style would be on this list. If your guy can't get enough of your bodacious booty, indulge him with doggy style. He'll love the full view coming straight at him, especially if he's into anal but you're not quite ready to explore that avenue. (If you are, then go for it!) If you're sick of being on all fours, use a piece of furniture, a wall, or a couple pillows to prop yourself up. It'll provide some support for your aching arms so you can relax and focus on the pleasure.prevnext
If your guy is typically in control, you climbing on top during sex is sure to drive him wild. Not only does it let you control the rhythm and speed of sex, but he gets to lie back and enjoy the view. He's able to touch every part of your body (let him know what you like touched the most) and he gets a front row seat to see your facial expressions and reactions.
Depending on his preferences, you could always spin around and experiment with the reverse cowgirl (especially if he can't get enough of those strong glutes you've been working on in the gym).prevnext
Lying on Your Sides
When you and your partner lie on your sides (facing each other), it gives you a chance to keep things intimate — but can also get pretty passionate. You can make the emotional connection during sex (without having to get kind of creepy 18th-century soulmate intense) while keeping things hot and heavy. He'll enjoy being able to control the rhythm and speed of sex, and you won't have to fully give up control. This position is especially awesome if one side of your vagina or clitoris is more sensitive than the other — simply position yourself in the best angle and enjoy the magic.prevnext
Watching reruns of your favorite show... again? Spice things up by turning down the TV volume and turning up the heat. Straddle your guy on the couch with him facing out and you facing the back of the couch. The back of the couch will provide some sturdy, yet comfortable, support for him so he can go deep inside you and get a full view. Plus, as long as you're avoiding any support bars on the couch, you don't have to worry about bruised or sore knees afterward. Just make sure you're home alone!prevnext
If you've got a large mirror in your bedroom, position yourselves so you can watch each other in the mirror. Being able to see the deed from all angles is a major turn-on. Plus, you can pretend you're acting in or watching a dirty movie. If all you've got is a full-length mirror in the bathroom, take him in and give him oral from your knees — just see how long he can stand it without his knees buckling. No luck in the mirror department? Use anything you can, like your reflection in the TV or computer screen. We're telling you, you'll thank us later.prev