We’ll take a good clitoral orgasm or a G-spot big O any day, but there’s a grand finale out there that’s more toe-curling than you’ve ever felt.
This O from heaven—known as a blended orgasm—combines the sensations from both clitoral and vaginal stimulation into one wild total-body feeling. Why are you just now hearing about this?
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Well, it’s probably because a blended orgasm isn’t for amateurs. To experience this overwhelming ending, you’ll need to learn some specific techniques, plus some serious patience, to make it happen.
Lucky for you, though, we have the best tips and tricks for reaching the big, big, big O if you’re up for the challenge.
Practice makes perfect, after all. But first, let’s learn the basics.
How does a blended O work?
If you’re fortunate enough to have felt the ahhh-wesome sensations of both a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal climax, you know they can feel pretty different. A clitoral orgasm is usually easier and quicker to reach since that area is outside the body and can be pinpointed.
Vaginal orgasms, though, are the product of G-spot stimulation (the dime-sized pleasure center behind your inner vaginal wall) or just some amazing penetration. These are more difficult to reach because your body has to be stroked just right, and every woman’s sensations are different. But with hard work comes a bigger reward, and vaginal Os are known to be a more intense, whole body thrill.
So by combining the two actions that cause these separate climaxes, you get to experience the unique sensations that come with each simultaneously. This gives your body a longer, deeper orgasm… and who doesn’t want that?
As if that isn’t convincing enough, your guy will see a benefit from a blended sex session, too. “A blended orgasm requires different touches on two distinct body areas, and this extra effort naturally slows him down and helps him last longer,” says Ava Cadell, a certified sex therapist in Los Angeles. And when you finally reach the top of Mt. Blended O, it’ll be sure to drive him wild watching your release.
Enough talk. Ready to try it?
Go solo at first.
As mentioned, achieving a blended orgasm takes some unique technique and lots of practice, so you don’t want to place that pressure on your guy when you don’t know exactly how it’s done.
Your best bet is to fly solo until you master the art.
Start by lying on your back, focusing on your body’s relaxation and prepping yourself for the sexual act to come. (Vaginal breathing is always helpful here!) When you’re ready, tease your clitoris lightly at first and increase the strokes’ pressure until you’re close to climax.
This is where that patience part comes in.
Before you come, stop and move your fingers to the inside of your vagina. It’s G-spot time! Find it by running your finger an inch or two up your front vaginal wall. When you feel a small spongy area that’s super sensitive to light pressure, you’ve hit it.
Stroke your G-spot by vaginal penetration or by massaging the spot directly, and keep going ’till you’re almost done. When you feel like you’re close, rest for a moment, then continue, adding that original clit action back into the mix. If this is too much for your fingers to handle, you can always use a vibrator!
If you keep up both actions, you’ll reach a deep, ‘holy-crap’ kind of orgasm. It’ll make your vagina contract in pulsing movements and you’ll probably need some well-deserved rest after. But if it didn’t happen, keep trying. You’ll get there and it’s so worth it.
Mastered it? Bring in your lover.
When you learn how to bring on a blended O yourself, introduce your guy in the action. (It’s less work for you and you still get off! Win-win.)
Start in a position that makes it easy for him to hit your G-spot. Lying with your hips on the edge of the bed and using a pillow as a prop while he enters you standing may be best.
When he’s thrusted until you’re close to orgasm, have him stop and watch a sexy show. Do this for a couple minutes, then repeat the routine until you’re both dying to orgasm. When you’re ready, have him enter you one last time and stroke your clitoris while he’s pumping.
Talk about fireworks in the bedroom!
When this rendezvous feels like a breeze to achieve a blended O, get creative with other positions. Doggie style puts his hands in a perfect position to do the clitoris work, or leaning into girl-on-top allows it to be stroked without any fingers.
OooOOo-kay. Sounds like you have some sexy work to do.
