Controversial Netflix Reality TV Series Has Social Media Weighing In

Netflix hasn't shied away from making waves in the world of reality TV in recent years, but its latest addition to its reality lineup is stirring controversy. While titles like Too Hot to Handle, The Circle and the recently-debuted Sexy Beasts have all earned their fair share of buzz online, the Wednesday, July 14 debut of My Unorthodox Life has sparked plenty of talk from viewers.

Dubbed by the streamer as a journey through an "untamed, unpredictable, and unorthodox life," the nine-part series follows fashion mogul Julia Haart, a former member of an ultra-Orthodox Jewish community turned CEO of Elite World Group. Haart, a mother of four – she is mom to a TikToker, an app designer, a lawyer, and a high schooler – "has been on a mission to revolutionize the industry from the inside out" while helping her children "reconcile their orthodox upbringings with the modern world." However, the series has been met with mixed reviews, with some believing it perpetuates damaging stereotypes about the Orthodox community as Haart, throughout the series, often criticizes the customs she grew up with.

Speaking to The Jerusalem Post, Sarah Ickovitz said she "never felt oppressed the way Julia Haart says Orthodox women are. Everybody has their own experiences, but I went to Bais Yaakov, too, and I can say [Haart's] claims that women aren't free to become whatever they want are just not true." Some, including Devorah Kigel, a Manhattan-based Orthodox educator on the role of women in Judaism, have even said they are boycotting My Unorthodox Life. Kigel noted that "for the average American, secular Jew or non-Jew, they don't have much exposure to what Orthodox life is like… This show, in particular, is very fabricated, and what frustrates me most is that she wasn't honest about her experiences growing up… But the fact that she deliberately fabricated her life and the details, in a huge Netflix series, that's the problem." Kigel said that rather than telling "her true story," Haart "went the Keeping up with the Kardashians route, and it's just not tasteful."

Amid the controversy, Normal Frum Women podcast co-host and columnist for Mishpacha magazine Alexandra Flesshe began the "[My Orthodox Life]" hashtag, encouraging other Orthodox women to share their own truths. The hashtag has gained momentum, with both Orthodox women and those simply sitting down to watch the show using it to share their opinions. Keep scrolling to see what people are saying about My Unorthodox Life.