8 Ways to Make Guy-on-Top Sex Better Than Ever Before

Let your pillow give you a boost.

If your guy's manhood runs on the smaller side, missionary isn't exactly the best position for clitoral stimulation. Face it: Your guy's probably having more fun than you. (The tiny clitoris has double the nerve endings as the entire penis — so by definition, girls totally should have more fun.) Now's the time to grab a pillow, prop it under your booty and enjoy your new higher angle. That way he can go deeper and you don't have to hurt his feelings OR suffer through another less-than-ideal sex session.

Even if your clitoris is already a happy camper during missionary, using a pillow could also simply change the angle you and your partner are used to, providing some new and exciting sensations for the both of you. There are all kinds of different ways to use a pillow for a stronger orgasm — brush up on your pillow talk here.

Toss your legs over his shoulders.

Take the pillow trick to the next level by throwing your legs over your partner's shoulders. The extra height offered by the pillow combined with the new angle of your hips and pelvic bone should result in some pretty explosive results. It'll be way easier for him to hit your G-spot in this new position — and you can sit back, relax and enjoy the fireworks. Experiment with laying back and propping yourself up on your hands or elbows to see which specific angle feels the best. Practice makes perfect!

Get a little handsy.

If your clit is still wondering when the heck its orgasm is coming, have your guy angle his pelvis so his pelvic bone is rubbing up against you. The stimulation might be just what you needed to feel a little extra rush. Then, if you have faith in his upper body strength, have him reach down and use his palm to apply gentle, pulsing pressure to the top of your vagina. (You could always do it yourself, but let's be honest here — while masturbation is all well and good, sometimes a girl needs a little pampering.) That way, you'll be blessed with both direct and indirect stimulation — talk about the best of both worlds.

Drop and give me 20.

If your guy is particularly well endowed and your vagina is straight up begging for a little mercy, ask him to assume a modified pushup position where his arms are less bent and he can control the depth a little more. If that's too uncomfortable for him, just ask him to lean back a bit so he's easing into you rather than experiencing the jackhammer feeling. Additionally, if he's so big that his penis is curved, have him assume that modified pushup position, then tilt your pelvis depending on which way his penis curves. For example, if he's curved to the left, lean to the right, and so on.

Protect your locks at all costs.

Few things take you out of the mood faster than when your partner pulls your hair during sex — and not the good way. You can't help it that your luscious mermaid hair falls all around you when you lie down, and it's hard not to get mad when your guy's hands or arms accidentally slam down on it during missionary sex. Aside from putting your hair in a ponytail (which could also take you out of the mood), there's one surefire way to protect your locks: Simply sit up. Not only will your hair fall straight down your back, safely out of the way, but you'll experience a whole new style and angle of missionary. Best of all, his hands are free to travel anywhere they want.

Face, meet pillow.

No judgment if you or your partner sweat a lot — but becoming one giant, sweaty blob can get old after a while. Especially if that sweat is dripping from your guy's face onto your own. Those pillows we talked about earlier? Not only are they great for helping a girl reach her climax, but they can also take one for the team in the sweat department. If you can't take any more smelly, salty sweat in your face, gently guide your partner's head toward the pillow, nestling it into your neck and using the pillow as a sweat mop. Sure, it's kind of gross and you'll definitely need to throw that puppy in the wash, but at least you can focus on the task at hand rather than worry about getting someone else's sweat in your eye.

March to the beat of your own drum.

Next time you're feeling a little meh on the bottom while your partner is doing all the work on top, take control of your thrusting. Get active and involved in the action by controlling the rhythm of your hips. That way you can speed it up or slow it down depending on what feels best. Plus, that way you're actually having sex with each other, rather than your partner just having sex on top of you. Always an added bonus, right?

Squeeze your eyes tight.

By its nature, missionary sex leads to a lot of eye contact. If staring into your partner's eyes like you're Jack and Rose on the Titanic is proving itself a bit too intense, just close 'em! Picture whatever fantasy you want or just relax and focus on the wild sensations happening in your bed. He'll assume you're so turned on that you can't even keep your eyes open, and you'll be able to pretend the two of you have been transported to somewhere in the south of France.