4 Orgasm Secrets Men Will Never Come Clean About
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He knows exactly when he's going to orgasm.
Don't be fooled by the "I'm sorry, I had no idea it was about to happen" trick. Unless your guy has literally never ejaculated in his life, he knows when it's about to happen. The truth is that there's quite the build-up when it comes to having an orgasm (that's why popular masturbation methods like edging are so fun), so he has an uncanny sense for when he's about to pop.
Think about it: You wouldn't just expect an orgasm to pop up out of nowhere for yourself — and while, granted, male orgasms might be a little easier to bring forth, believe us when we say his orgasm takes its sweet time as well. He knows when it's time.
prevnextHe needs that post-sex pee, too.
Almost everyone knows that it's highly recommended for women to pee after sex in order to help flush out any bacteria leftover from sex in the urethra to help prevent infections like UTIs. But guys need that post-coital bathroom time, too! If men don't clear their pipes soon enough, dried semen could cause some issues the next time they do need to pee. Read: two pee streams, one urethra.
Unless you want an unintended mess all over your toilet, floor or even walls, encourage your guy to use the restroom when you're finished (because ladies first, duh).
prevnextHe's probably better at getting himself off than you are.
Just like you know all your hot spots and favorite erogenous zones, your man knows exactly what to do to reach his happy place, so he can probably get his rocks off faster by himself than when you're helping out.
That's not to say he doesn't prefer it when you're involved, but when it comes to efficiency, he's probably the best bet. (Hey, it's not like you've ever wished a sweaty, slightly unsatisfying escapade with your guy was a solo session instead.) If he asks to take over for a minute, take it in stride — you'd do the same thing, right?
prevnextHis brain is basically asleep
Nirvana, bliss, zen, pure joy — whatever you want to call it, there are a few sweet, sweet seconds of blank nothingness during orgasm when your guy's brain is basically just asleep at the wheel.
While it only lasts for a few seconds at the most, for a quick moment, all your guy can think about is the sensation coursing through his body. Maybe that explains the super weird face he's making? Or the noises? Asking for a friend here...
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