When you and your man are in the mood, there's really not a wrong way to go about doing the deed, per se... but be honest: Could there be ways to make it better? Probably.
There's no shame in amping up your sex life; after all, there's pleasure involved for both of you. If you show your guy a little extra lovin', chances are he'll return the favor.
The best part of changing up your sex game? (Aside from it being super fun and sexy, that is!) You don't have to reinvent the wheel. Sex is sex, no matter how you look at it, and just a few minor tweaks can make all the difference in the world.
Whether you're looking to switch up your old bedtime routine or just trying to keep things fresh between the sheets, check out these simple tweaks you can make that will drive your guy wild.
If you're getting down and dirty with your man and can successfully predict exactly what's going to happen next, then it might be time to bring this simple tip into play. All you have to do is change your speed. And you know what we mean by "speed."
If you normally take things slow, ramp up the tempo — and vice versa. Any change in speed will keep things interesting and pleasurable. The same goes in pressure and position — the slightest change in your routine will take "meh" sex to absolute fire sex.
"Variety keeps him in a heightened state of arousal because he never knows what to expect," psychologist and author of "The Art of the Quickie", Joel Block, Ph.D., told Cosmopolitan.
You know that men are visual creatures — so use that to your advantage. Next time you're in the mood, instead of leading him to the bedroom, lead him to the mirror.
"One time during sex, my girlfriend led me over to a mirror so we could see ourselves in action," Tyler, 21, told Cosmo. "I found it really sexy, but what made it hotter was how into it she was."
Similar to the mirror trick, keeping the lights on will ensure your guy gets the view he's craving.
"He loves when he can see and feel your body, and the biggest turnoff for him is your acting embarrassed," Pepper Schwartz, PhD, a relationships advisor for Perfectmatch.com, told Women's Health.
So turn on your favorite sexy tunes and get empowered like the queen you are. The more you love your bod, the more hot and bothered your man will get.
As much as you might doubt it, your guy does actually want foreplay. In fact, if done right, foreplay could take your sex sesh to the next level — even if the actual act only takes a few minutes because you're both so turned on.
"Longer foreplay helps men synchronize with their partners, giving them confidence and, as a result, better control over [orgasm]," San Francisco sex therapist Seth Prosterman, PhD told Women's Health.
Looking for some sexy foreplay tips? You're in the right place.
As silly as it may sound, the earlobe is a total erogenous zone, thanks to the fact that it's bundled with nerves endings. Plus, the fact that it's rarely touched will resonate and make your guy weak in the knees.
Be careful to isolate his earlobe, not touching any other part of his body, while kissing, licking and gently nibbling it. Watch his reaction — if he has goosebumps, you know you're doing it right.
Having too much fun with his erogenous zones? Try out the others, too.