5 Signs a Woman Is Definitely Faking Her Orgasm
If you’re a man, you’ve definitely wondered if your lady has ever faked it in bed. And if [...]
There's no recovery phase:
Because a true orgasm leaves you feeling kind of stiff, there should be a period of time where she can't/doesn't want to talk or move. She'll also need a minute or two to help her body temperature come back to normal and for her breathing to slow and regulate.
If her breath immediately comes back down to normal or she wants to tell you all about her day at work while you're washing up, those are fairly obviously signs it was an acted orgasm.
Also, if her eyes aren't dilated, her skin isn't flushed and it feels dry, those are other signs her body can give away that an orgasm didn't happen.
prevnextShe’s flailing around:
A shaking, floppy body may seem like you've just given her the climax of her life, but in reality, it's a sure sign of a fake.
When a woman orgasms, her body gets tense and stiff, similar to a guy's when he's close to climax. If she gets off immediately after switching positions or is moving around to show how much she likes it, she really doesn't.
With a genuine orgasm, a woman will move much less when she's close. Her muscles will contract or pulse, her toes will curl and her facial expression might stick for a minute; that's the kind of orgasm you're after.
prevnextMuscle contractions are perfectly timed:
When a woman orgasms, you know that her pelvic muscles will contract. The tricky part is that a woman also knows this. Still, there's a pretty easy way to tell the difference between real and acted contractions.
In a fake orgasm, a woman will likely perform kegel exercises to make the vagina get tighter, but she'll perform them slowly or in a steady rhythm. With a genuine climax, though, the contractions will feel like quick pulses and will happen faster than a woman can physically contract her muscles. Some women also experience an extended clench when they orgasm, which is also something a woman can't fake for too long without giving in to the burn of kegels.
prevnextIt feels/looks different than normal:
Even if one orgasm seems stronger than another, the basic reactions from your body will be the same. If you can feel pulsing contractions one time when she 'climaxes' but not the next or if her eyes roll back during one sex session and she's talking full sentences during the next, only one of them was genuine.
Every woman's climax can be a bit different, but if you're with a long-term partner, look for constants in her orgasm. She should get stiffer, but her eyes will likely make a similar gaze, noises will sound the same, breathing patterns won't change and her vaginal contractions will feel the same to you.
If her reactions are all over the place, she isn't really reaching orgasm every time (which is totally okay and normal).
prevnextYou climax at exactly the same time:
It would make sense for the feel-good contractions of a woman's orgasm to help put her man over the edge. But when you tell her you're about to finish and suddenly she's feeling ready, too, something's probably fishy.
The only exception to this is when you plan to orgasm at the same time and put in the effort to make it work, allowing her pleasure to lead. If you're using an edging technique to hold off your orgasms, you could certainly have a simultaneous happy ending.
Other than that, your 'O' face didn't spontaneously trigger hers.
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